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Guys is it a red flag if I am genuinely TERRIFIED of seaweed and my bf actively tries to force me into it knowing my fear of them. Yet he claims that he’s just trying to get me over my fear and that he also wants to see me scream since he’s never heard it
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Anonymous 7w

Ewww red flag

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Anonymous 7w

he should have asked if you wanted help getting over it first. the last bit, is totally a red flag.

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Anonymous 7w

How are these men in relationships?

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Anonymous 7w

that is a massive red flag!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

We’ve been dating for two years tho and idk if I’m overthinking or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Did you communicate all of this with him super clearly so he can’t misconstrue or misunderstand it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I told him to knock it off and that I am actually terrified of it, but that’s abt all I said. But I ended up in some of it by accident and started freaking out so he saw and does know, but is still trying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

i’d honestly recommend having a conversation with him and saying that him doing what he’s doing isn’t helping and its making the fear worse and you really would like him to stop. pay very close attention to how he responds to this conversation and pay attention to if he actually stops or not!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

That’s awesome advice thanks! I’ll talk to him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

no problem!! feel free to message me if you have any other questions!! :)

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