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Never realized how rare my ex was until I got back into dating again. We were together for years and he would tell me I’d have something on my face but he’d get it and then kiss me, we’d go to a park and play music in his car and dance in the parking lot
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Anonymous 2w

He also always got everyone in my family gifts for their birthdays and Christmas (including my dog) and one year my cousin and her dog spent Christmas with us and he got her and her dog a gift too…why the fuck are all the guys I’ve talked to/dated since just not even close to that

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Anonymous 2w

I’m sorry that all went down the way it did. people are being hard on you but i do get what it’s like to be the shitty partner in the relationship. there’s not much you can do now except let him go, continuing to reach out even to apologize is going to make his life more difficult and keep him from being able to move on with his life. you seem very self aware but the next step isn’t to wallow in that but to learn from your mistakes and learn to forgive yourself.

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Anonymous 2w

Oh girl. You and your family were the problem. I hope he finds someone who accepts his awkwardness to the fullest.

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Anonymous 2w

Does he have a brother? Cousin? Dad?

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Anonymous 2w

Same experience except we ended things bc he only acted like that so i wouldnt find out about him chronically cheating LOL

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Anonymous 2w

Nowadays girls only go for looks, idk the last time someone noticed my personality and knew I would be good to them. Not a lot of us nice guys left out there lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Why’d you two break up babes?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I also wanna know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

As dumb as it sounds it’s cause my friends and family pointed out how he didn’t really talk to them (as in starting conversations, he would keep talking to them after they started but he was kinda awkward). We also moved in together and it got hard cause he got a job that kept him out of the apartment from 9am to 9pm between his classes and his job and it was hard being by myself that long even though it was only going to be for a few months where it’d be like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

All the above but none of them are like him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

respectfully baby you fumbled 😭😭 get him back

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Rats

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Ik however it’s too late. I fucked up more cause I kept asking him to sleep together and kept wanting to talk to him after we broke up and I lied to my friends and family about it and said he was the one hitting me up instead of the other way around cause I was embarrassed and didn’t want them to be mad with me, he found out and we had a very large argument and then I was dumb and rebounded which he found out about and he was just done with me after that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I do not like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Makes two of us

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Respectfully you didn’t deserve him 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

you’re not a nice guy if you’re invading a girls only space. you know damn well you don’t belong in here now GO ON GIT!! SHOO!!!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

IM SO SORRY I THOUGHT I WAS IN THE COLLEGE THREAD. I WAS NEVER HERE

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

oh girl you suck

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

really hoping you’re either a guy or this is some kind of weird rage bait type post

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Don’t be too harsh, people make mistakes and she clearly recognizes her fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m really hoping this is ragebait because if not you gave this man insecurities and issues he’ll probably need therapy for. You’re a villain for all of this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

no i’m right

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

But at least you recognize it was your fault, hopefully you never do this to another man again, that guy loved you more than you know and was husband material, lifetime fumble

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Ik he went to therapy cause he told me about how he had to see his therapist more often. There’s more to the story and he did some messed up things after too and did some serious lies but ik im at fault for that and ik he’s better without me

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Anonymous 2w

both #1 and #6 need to have the respect of leaving this community. it’s not for you and there are plenty of other communities to join. joining the one community that’s dedicated specifically to only women is the opposite of respect it’s invasive.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

On a positive note hopefully this bad experience causes him to prioritize himself in the future and give less energy to future partners until they 100% deserve it. For a lot of people having a bad partner like this who hurts you badly is a canon event and in the long run a big part of development as a person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Get out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Please leave

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I already left the community after the comments below.

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