Anonymous #1 13h

Yeah a man would never say this lmao. They say “men are oppressed bc we have to sign up for the draft” even though that’s not a threat to them at all

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Anonymous #1 12h

Men say it if they feel like another man is too feminine. They say it to men who are teachers, nurses, doctors, actors, and frankly any queer man

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Anonymous #3 12h

Maybe it’s cause I’m in a blue state but this has not been my experience at all that’s why I hear girls say it when they complain about guys not being forward enough

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Anonymous #1 12h

I’m from New York, this is common online and irl if you’re not always in specific groups. I try to stay in progressive circles but that doesn’t really mean it happens any less

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Anonymous #3 12h

I’m from Illinois and I feel like a lot of straight men I know are very comfortable being feminine and are always playing gay with each other

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Anonymous #1 12h

Honestly pretty good for you guys, wouldn’t have expected it. It’s still a thing in majority of places though 🥲

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Anonymous #3 12h

Illinois like top 3 liberal states fr

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Anonymous #1 12h

The only men I’ve heard say this are conservatives boomers who, like stated, would never join the military. And women who want to uphold patriarchal values

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Anonymous #4 12h

Fr

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Anonymous #5 10h

Wut

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Anonymous #1 9h

fr I’m always surprised by how queer-friendly my workplaces can be, a lot of that’s because it’s a professional standard that rose from state laws & culture—even in suburbs/some rural areas, you’ll still find that

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Anonymous #2 4h

You sound like a simp

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Anonymous #3 4h

Mix of progressive and traditional

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