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I’m a virgin at 22 and at first I feel it’s because I was “ugly” but now I could if I really wanted but I feel nobody would be WORTH it rn. I just feel like it’d be a weird convo to have. Everyone
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Anonymous 1w

Hey that’s mad respect first off, and secondly we all probably thought we were ugly until we realized the power women have over men with just a little bit of effort mixed in. But you’re truly right no body at least in my experience now a days is worth sex period. Like I would rather have a date and get drunk and go home end night. No man has reached a mark where I’m impressed or in love enough to put out. Less more if I’m trying to find a for real partner who isn’t lame or unattractive in my eye

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Anonymous 1w

girl I’m older than you and a virgin idc fuck it

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Anonymous 1w

Girl I didn’t lose my v card till I was 20 and I don’t regret it at all bc I got to have my first time with a mature partner who made it enjoyable for me

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Anonymous 1w

girl you have what most girls WISH they could go back in time and save for themselves. you get to experience your first time with your potential forever person and that is more valuable than anything

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Anonymous 1w

***Everyone sucks and I feel nobody would even be worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Like genuinely would you still love me if we never had sex. And I feel nobody would ever say yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That’s all down to preference and lifestyle. Maybe reach into the asexual community for some more belonging or advice in how you feel if that’s the case. But even I want sex, before and after marriage. Ppl like me can go years on a dry spell some can’t last months. And that’s okay ppl are different and need different things or working through smth else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I mean I DO want to, but I’d want someone to want me without that being the main reason? If that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yea love shouldn’t be based entirely on sex but you can’t be upset if you constantly without it for ever and always and they leave u less they are on the same page as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

this is so real i’m also a virgin but im 18 and part of it is i think im super chopped but then also all men seem so evil and they all have a ton of bodies.. am i crazy for wanting a guy without a ton of sexual history as a girl without a ton of sexual history? it doesn’t help that they will also lie about their history to gain access to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Exactly !!!!!!!

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