
just say they have an ugly personality then. you don’t have to actually call them ugly. i just feel like the more us women call each other ugly and mock each others appearances, the more men feel like they have a right to. if someone is acting badly, you should be able to stand on that alone as a reason to dislike them appearance aside
okay but being racist towards me is ALSO coming for anyone who looks like me, as well as holding up dangerous and violent rhetoric that has killed/harmed my ancestors before me. like racism is such a deeper issue. at the end of the day too, features/beauty is subjective. no two people really look alike, and at least for me, you actions genuinely taint how i look at you. i was agreeing with you before but i think now you’ve lost me champ.
i think a person acting racist is enough to condemn them in my eyes without needing to drag their physical appearance into it. i’m seeing a lot of people say “oh but when they act bad it makes them ugly to me” and i kind of get that but then why not just say they’re acting bad that should be enough conventional beauty standards shouldn’t have anything to do with it