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Ya not for me bc my ex would wait until I was asleep and go through it and find nothing. One time we were broken up and I caught him and asked to go through his and found that he had been rejected by 30+ women with hard no’s and I laughed at him and he sa
Unpopular opinion but going through a phone or tablet or anything in a long term monogamous relationship is fine. If it’s every day? That’s excessive but like acting suspicious and lying? Yes go for it.
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Anonymous 12w

I meant if it’s an occasional thing then it’s fine. If it’s a constant behavior then that’s not acceptable. Obviously for your ex it was an obsession

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Anonymous 12w

he said that it was really cold of me to laugh. I also asked him how he thought his game was because out of 30+ women all of them said no. And I found it to be astounding

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I agree. If it’s discussed and not anything sneaky then that seems healthier than going through it sneakily expecting for the worst and no reassurance. Personally I don’t want that dynamic though. I would much rather we be comfortable and secure to the point where we don’t have to do that. I learned that if I feel like i need to snoop it’s not for me.

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