Anonymous OP 14h

okay i was with you until u said this shit. the worst women i know have abused, SA’d, robbed ppl. the avg man is not a bad person like that.

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Anonymous #1 14h

I’m not gonna pretend your rare scenario is the majority. The worst woman that most of us know is just a mean girl who cheats

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Anonymous OP 14h

it’s not the majority by any means. just saying it’s a hell of a stretch to try to compare the worst woman to an avg man saying the man is still worse. a mean cheating woman is still worse than the avg man. the avg man does not cheat

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Anonymous OP 14h

also - it’s not as rare as you’d think. around 1 in 4 men experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime

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Anonymous #2 12h

Same here, but I would lowk sound the same sometimes and I hate it, it’s embarrassing, don’t know where my standards went

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Anonymous #1 7h

thank you for also being annoyed at the slogan—my first relationship as a (former) les was with a serial SAer & manipulator, so it always irks me when people act like women are ontologically incapable of being evil, as if that’s not anti-feminist in itself

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Anonymous #4 7h

“Former Les” you were never lesbian.

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Anonymous OP 7h

doesn’t change the fact I dated an assaulter but ok? happily aroace 🖕

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Anonymous #4 7h

I’m not saying women can’t abuse people…

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Anonymous OP 7h

the average man isnt a zoophile or rapist

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Anonymous #4 7h

No but he’s a misogynistic person who can’t even reach the bare minimum

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Anonymous OP 7h

this is true! that is not worse than being a rapist or a zoo though, hence why your original comment pmo

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Anonymous OP 7h

this is a jaded view not rooted in reality.

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Anonymous #1 7h

You’re saying that because you guys know an evil woman. Like I’m speaking logically and statistically, and you’re speaking in terms of personal experience

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Anonymous #1 7h

Learn what a tendency is

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Anonymous #1 7h

considering the national voting statistics, idk about that

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Anonymous OP 7h

“logically and statistically” girl you said “the worst woman you know” so that’s who we’re using as a reference lmao. you directly addressed our personal experience and are now complaining about it. don’t say the slogan then get pissed off when people take it seriously 😭

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Anonymous #4 7h

Slogan? What is this, a marketing campaign? Are you on the spectrum per chance because most people did not take that comment personally. Most understood that I’m speaking based off of stats and tendencies

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Anonymous OP 7h

you don’t know how logic and statistics work if you think that the avg man is a horrible person. your view is skewed

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Anonymous OP 7h

“are you on the spectrum” is a weird thing to say to someone after claiming I’m being irrational

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Anonymous #4 7h

I took your truism seriously rather than going “yeah, feminism!” to something blatantly anti-feminist. your original comment stated women are ontologically incapable of being less moral than the average man, which dehumanizes women by acting like women are incapable of being bad people.

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Anonymous #4 7h

It’s anti feminist to go off the stats of men being responsible for 90+ of violence, rape, and pedophelia in the world?

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Anonymous OP 7h

just because the majority of those crimes are committed by men (no ones disputing that) doesn’t mean the majority of men are like that. the avg guy is still an avg guy. i think the majority of ppl men and women are just average people. good people trying to be good people.

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Anonymous #1 7h

Whatever helps you sleep at night? Like who are you tryna convince rn

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Anonymous OP 7h

thank you for proving I shouldn’t waste time on you! showing that you’re a vibe feminist with zero reading comprehension was very kind 👍

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Anonymous OP 7h

you! i think you have a sad jaded view of the world. i get why you think that, i used to be closer to that side of things too, but it was when i was very much not in a good place. i don’t wanna argue with you anymore or try to convince you tho

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Anonymous #1 7h

You’re projecting lmao. You’re looking at it in a subjective way rather than an overall trend/statistic objective way. Idk if it’s because you’re trying to convince yourself that men aren’t responsible for a lot of the issues in the world, or if you just have such a clouded view from that woman who was horrible to you

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Anonymous OP 7h

that is not or what projecting is, i’m not looking at it at a subjective way, and i prolly have a better understanding of statistics than you do. i have a bachelors degree in psychology and researched intimate partner violence.

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Anonymous OP 3h

Me when I failed 9th grade statistics

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