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my bsf never asks me to hang out anymore she only wants to be with her bf and im a little short with him simply bc thats how i talk to men so she says she doesn’t wanna invite me
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Anonymous 5d

like if he jokes with me i’m gonna make fun of him back but somehow in her eyes im always saying the wrong things

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Anonymous 5d

In the same boat… bsf hasn’t talked to me since January I didn’t even wish her a happy birthday

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

i feel like if i didn’t text her we wouldn’t talk but she’s like my only friend in my hometown and she’s good besides this i’m just so sick of having the conversation w her where it feels like im begging for friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

It’s up to you but I dropped my bsf bc I communicated that I wanted her to call me and text me more TWICE she never tried atp she didn’t gaf about me the way I did for her we outgrew ecahother It’s hard bc we’ve known each other since birth but I think since it started 3 years ago I’m not fazed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I think since the bf is the issue and it seems like she’s prioritizing him over you you should voice that bc that’s not okay… maybe give it distance until she reaches out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

i’ve voiced it several times and she maintains that he is an important part of her life that is here to stay and i’ve never disputed that but when i ask for more of her time i just feel jealous and i don’t want to feel that way

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