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Girl Talk 16w
Would I be wrong to ghost/stop talking to this guy? Longs story short I’m the only one who reaches out consistently, he’ll stop answering then reach back out as if nothing ever happened and I’m getting tired of it
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Anonymous 16w

nah, drop him. if he can’t respect your time, you sure as hell don’t have to respect his. you’ll find someone who is able to consistently and effectively communicate, and who will respect your time!

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Anonymous 16w

Nope this is absolutely justified

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Anonymous 16w

I’d try talking to him about it first, but if he doesn’t change (and I’m talking about clear, long-term change and not just two weeks), drop him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Like I feel so bad because I do try to give him the benefit of the doubt, but at this point I’m over it. Like I don’t know if it’s my mental health fogging my judgement but like I’m just tired of it. Like I told him I would FaceTime him, I call, he answers, said “Oh” then just hung up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

As much as is it hurts; if he wanted too he would. You deserve sooo much better. Drop his sorry ass!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Like before tonight’s call I tried FaceTiming him last week, he answered, saw it was me and just hung up. Then he called me this morning and I was like hey can I call you back later, he said yes, I FaceTimed him, he saw it was me, said “Oh” then just hung up. And now here I am sobbing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Baby he ain’t worth ur tears I’m so sorry :((

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

yeah no girl, don’t entertain him anymore, because you most certainly don’t want to get seriously involved with a man who treats you like that! drop him now, and you’ll be able to find someone who treats you right!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Like I was crying already and needed someone to talk to, thought I could talk to him, he pulls that and how here I am sobbing 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

I do try talking to him. Like before last night I’ve tried talking to him multiple times and nothing changes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Ok, then you should drop him. He’s clearly wasting your time, and it seems like he doesn’t give a damn about how he’s treating you

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