would you as a girl ask a man you previously worked with and don’t communicate with (who has a girlfriend) to go out with you for your birthday ? for scientific purposes
Would it just be him and you, also why do you want to spend your birthday with a man (who’s not related to you) that has a girlfriend?
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Anonymous1w
it would have been one thing if you were also invited. i consider myself a very secure person, not really jealous, and this would have made me feel weird
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Anonymous1w
ooo well maybe she didn’t mean anything by it? tbh maybe she doesn’t have a lot of friends and remembers him being kind to her at work. who knows! at least your bf did the right thing
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Anonymous#11w
no some girl asked my bf this lol and im trying to find peace in the fact that i said no to him going
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AnonymousOP1w
he wanted to go with her?
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Anonymous#11w
No he said he would ask me
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AnonymousOP1w
i’m just not trying to be that controlling gf yk? but that raises some red flags for me
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AnonymousOP1w
Nah that doesn’t seem controlling imo. I think you should figure out why she wants him to go
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Anonymous#21w
well she called him and when he didn’t answer she texted him. he said he would ask me abt it and then she invited me
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Anonymous#11w
i’m not necessarily worried abt that my boyfriend is just a friendly guy and yk how women LOVE a friendly man
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Anonymous#21w
yeah most def i love that he’s super kind to everyone but some girls just don’t know the difference between kind and flirting lol