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Girl Talk 13w
My ex and I broke up about 2.5 years ago and dated for 3. We didn’t end on the best terms and communicated back and forth for a while expressing our feelings about what all happened. I moved to a new city after college and have been adjusting to life. 1/3
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Anonymous 13w

So kinda same thing happened with my ex and I. Thing is that it very well could just be a thing where he wanted to know actual places to eat or if he actually wants to take you out to dinner somewhere and catch up. I was legit asking myself the same questions when myself with my own ex when communication started up randomly again and I had to decide if I wanted that door to open again. Thing is that each person is different and only they know the real reason for the reach out. So, question is

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Anonymous 13w

I'm not reading all that but I'm sorry you're experiencing this

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Anonymous 13w

We are mutuals on Snapchat and Instagram but don’t talk frequently. He texted me yesterday asking for food recommendations for the city I’m in because he’s going to be here for work next week. It was really random and I told him I didn’t really know because I’ve been working a lot and haven’t gone out much. Anyways… I’m trying to see what yall think… if I’m reading too much into it or if he’s trying to get me to say “hey since you’re in town do you wanna grab dinner or something…” pls help.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Do you actually want to meet up with him after everything or would you want to move forward? There’s no right and wrong answer, it’s whatever you want for yourself and the let that help you make your next decision

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I don’t even know what I want to do. A part of me will always love him but I don’t know if I want to open that can of worms again. It was a messy breakup :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I get that, as much as I hate what my ex put me through after we broke up and the lies that were told to me and the lies spread about me, I’ll always have a bit of love for my ex. And yk what that’s ok, however you can’t just forget everything that was messy when you broke up. Ofc emotions are high during them but there’s a limit to what’s okay and what’s not. One thing I realized after my breakup is that I was kinda just settling for a very long time and I wasn’t actually happy, I just didn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Want to be alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

lmao thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

That’s the thing… I felt like I was settling back then but now I feel like I was being too needy or overbearing with him. Idk I know he did things wrong but I also did things wrong too. I think maybe it’s bc I don’t want to be alone. But I’ve been alone the last three years, I haven’t had any serious relationships. Idk dude 😥

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