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just went no contact w my bf. we’re still together or on a break ig- im not sure. i told him i deserve better than how he was treating me & i know i do but it hurts so much. what do you do in this scenario? i love him & i know he can do better ughhh
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Anonymous 7w

First of all no contact isn’t gonna help. You need to talk things out like what changes you need from him and see if he’s willing to work on it

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Anonymous 7w

No contact w someone you’re still dating is wild tbh

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Anonymous 7w

as a girl that just went through this, we broke up, he reflected for like a month and a half how he wasn’t giving me even close to bare minimum and now it’s better than i could have imagined, it could work, or it could not, it really depends on your situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

it suckssss. started with us taking a break so he could get his health in order and now we’re here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

you are so right. we are long distance rn which i forgot to mention oops. when i get back for school we’re gonna sit down and talk- just don’t know what to do with myself for the time being

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I mean you could FaceTime if you don’t wanna wait

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

true. i’m gonna sit on how i feel for a bit before i call or anything. thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i love this thank you! i know whatever happens is meant to be. manifesting a happy ending!

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