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matched with this guy on hinge and we exchanged instagrams but he never really talked to me but when I posted my friend for her birthday he followed her and they been talking for a week now I really dont know what im doing wrong why is it so easy for her
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Anonymous 21h

i promise it isn’t anything wrong with you, youre beautiful and and outside and he’s just stupid to pass the opportunity to figure that out for himself, that’s just how some guys are.. and i don’t want to talk down on your friend but if she knew you were talking to him and trying to get to know him etc then she wouldn’t have entertained (which im assuming cs you didn’t really say that much). but don’t ever think smth is wrong with you, 90% of the times its the men just being idiots

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Anonymous 22h

My high school bsf was very much conventionally attractive, and I am not. Almost every time I tried to talk to a guy in school or something they would be completely uninterested and then try and go after her (I don’t have beef with her or nothing she’s a good person and always stuck up for me, she’d reject the advances from the guys she knew I liked) but I totally understand your situation. Fuck that guy

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Anonymous 20h

i hate to say this but he probs went through ur following and thought she was more his type… source: i’ve had this lowk happen to me and it sucks so bad being a POC when a guy tries to get w ur white friend instead of you like what else can you think😭 i doubt it’s anything wrong w u babes bc guys take beauty for granted way more than they should💀they’re dummies and there’s plenty more where that one came from

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Anonymous 19h

they’re both weird

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Anonymous 19h

your friend is NOT your friend

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Anonymous 19h

there’s nothing wrong with you, men are stupid. not just men but people in general. you’re worth so much more than some random guy’s opinion of you, you deserve someone who’ll put you first and doesn’t even give you the chance to question if he really likes you or not. when you get that, you’ll forget all about these stupid little boys. you’ll find each other at the right time, probably when you least expect it too. also if your friend knew about it, drop her.

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Anonymous 17h

that’s not ur friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Damn that sucks and I’ve definitely been there before, but I don’t think now that really a issue anymore me and her are both “ conventionally attractive” but once I pull the guy it’s like they want nothing to do with me anymore but with her I mean she can literally get them to do anything she wants

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

Idk does her friend know he did this? If she does I’d say it’s maybe not great but if she doesn’t then I probably wouldn’t be mad at her

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

ur right if she doesnt know its not her fault but assuming OP told her… yikes 😭

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