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Girl Talk 12w
had a lil tense moment my friends & realized i lowk was overreacting 💔💔💔 i apologized cause even tho i was they still listened to how i was feeling yk? they’re so nice i feel so bad for being mean on accident 💔😭 why am i realizing im lowk a red flag
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Anonymous 12w

Recognizing you have a problem is literally half the battle and you even apologized? Like that’s healthier communication than 95% of people

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Anonymous 12w

me when i realize im the problem 🙁

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Anonymous 12w

Everyone has problems, and recognizing them, apologizing for them, and then working on them is a pretty big green flag imo

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Anonymous 12w

Domt beat yourself up girly!! You recognized it and apologized!

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Anonymous 12w

Girl u don’t have a problem in the slightest everyone has their moments and ur one of the few ppl who can actually own up to them and that’s respect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

#goingtoworkonit #selfgrowth #livelaughlove

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

i’m just a little sad that i acted that way #notmadjustdissapointed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

don’t beat yourself up babe. it sounds like you have a good conscience. you’ll feel better this time next week don’t worry. proud of you for acknowledging the issue and apologizing. 🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

💘💘💘💘💘💘 you’re so sweeeeet tysm boo you’re so right im just in my feelings just a lil bump in the road of life frfr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

imagine the word “with” is after moment my bad 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

:( thank you so much for giving me this pov i wanna work on it fr it just catches you off guard when you see yourself doing it yk? tryna be a greener flag frfr

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

thanks girl 💘💘💘💘 i’m def gonna try to check myself more yk? i think sometimes we just be caught up in the moment i just don’t want them to feel like they can’t be friends w me anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

ugh ty girl i was just feeling so horrible abt it cause its like i don’t ever wanna make anybody feel like that esp my friends yk? times like this remind me im rlly still growing fr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

No I completely get it! Me too! I’ve noticed I’ve always raised my voice when I’m trying to communicate even when it’s not on purpose, I saw this rlly great post on insta that rlly grounded me and talked about how it’s important to communicate calm and keep calm. If you want I can send it to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

omgosh yes please i wanna learn how to stop and idk how and i don’t wanna keep apologizing for it yk ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Oh yeah I totally get it, it’s an unpleasant thing to realize, but you’re on the right path!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Have you tried any methods of meditation/mindfulness before? I’ve found that’s helped me not overreact to things as much

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

i used to journal a lot to practice mindfulness but i’ve been struggling with having the time or motivation to journal again it feels weird and idk why

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