
OP this is an extremely valid thing to be upset about, especially given ur situation. pap smears suck but people claiming they’d rather have long-term, life-changing illnesses over a few minutes of discomfort is … gross. im sorry this happens and i really hope you’re doing okay these days
my gyno said you should start getting them at 21 and be getting them every 3 years. obviously every body is different and listen to your doctor. i think the reason they upped the recommendation to 25 is bc cervical cancer is much less common in younger women, but if you have a history of cancer in your family you should start earlier
instead of upping the minimum age, we should just start pushing for women to get local anesthesia or have other pain management options. the pain is going to be unnecessary once they get to 25- that won’t ever go away unless we address the root issue, which is doctors not even offering something like localized anesthesia