Two pieces here… If you’re not happy with your birth control, switch! Low libido is usually a progestin-related side effect. You’d want more estrogen or a less androgenic progestin. Nortrel is already high estrogen, so you’d be looking at changing progestins. You’re currently using norethindrone, which is slightly androgenic. Consider moving further down the chart in the pic. A pill like Yasmin or Marvelon may be a good fit. Talk to your doctor about options.

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if ur uncomfy with the change in ur libido u can try a different birth control. that helped me, but u def don't have to if u don't want to. yall came to a compromise and if he can't calmly communicate that it's not working for him and he wants to reevaluate to see if something else works, that that just shows his immaturity

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Idk what the exact terms of your agreement are, but it seems like he isn't trying to compromise on this as much as you are. The dry begging is gross and childish. It strikes me as him trying to wear down your boundary so that he can get his way because he never wanted to compromise in the first place. Idk though 🤷‍♀️ I would try to talk to him about it again, but if he still isn't receptive to a conversation then it's on him

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