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Hey girl so I have a nonchalant Mexican man that says he can’t get emotionally attached but he loves me and posts the stories I post him in and he turned off his location and is somewhere else prob also bc of his family idk what do I do?
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Anonymous 5w

Is he your boyfriend? Or just someone you’re interested in/ talking to

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Anonymous 5w

i don't get why ur with a man who can never love u the way u DESERVE to be loved

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Anonymous 5w

He isn’t doing the bare minimum

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

My boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

is his location OFF or is service just shit?? If it’s off off thats def sketchy… but also idk I wouldn’t worry too much abt it depending on how long it’s off for. If he straight up said he’s essentially emotionally unavailable that’s def odd

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

No well it’s been off since yesterday but he wouldn’t cheat on me idk what he’s doing honestly he’s at a car meet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He’s not emotionally unavailable he just doesn’t get attached emotionally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Hence emotionally unavailable. Same idea. I can’t even process what a bf who doesn’t get emotionally attached even means. Like he doesn’t love you? Doesn’t feel for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He doesn’t miss me basically what he said he does love me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Respectfully I’m so confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yeah ik

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

He’s been through a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Like girl imagine him telling you at your wedding he just doesn’t miss you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yeah ik idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

He does love me everyone has their own way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

is he just ur friend u have aex with?? bc if he's emotionally unavailable then idk what else u could be getting from them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Look he does love me he’s been through a lot and I only know what and honestly many people have different ways of showing it but he does I assure you that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

what do u mean emotionally unavailable then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Like he basically said he wouldn’t miss me bc we would be in contact a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

so it sounds like he isn't ready to be in a relationship and is stringing u along w the bare minimum

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Look what yall need to get is that we both agree we see this going a long way yes he has a weird way showing his love but at the end of the day we both know we love each other and we’re not giving up on each other. Yes it’s hard me and him both been through stuff the same things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i'm glad ur feeling loved and supported. i'd just questions tht with emotionally unavailable + location off bc tht feels sus

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I will for sure but unavailable I understand why and location idk ima have to ask

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

yea i'd definitely ask esp if it's been over a day. and i'd also want to knw what he's doing on his own to become more emotionally available in order to be there for u in every way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Honestly we’re always tg I’m just someone who has separation anxiety so that explains it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

turning off ur location that's been shared this whole time isn't normal😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Nvm ik why YALL I HAVE THE BEST MAN IN THE WORKD

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