its true, its true, and the other thing is my sister had a baby and i took it over because she passed away but then the baby lost its arms and its legs and now its nothing but a stump but i still take care of it with my wife and its its growing and he's fairly happy and its difficult because i had to take a second shift at the factory to put food on the table but all the love that i see in that little guys face makes it worth it in the end