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i so badly want to fall in love with a man who feels the need to protect me. i’m so deeply insecure, and to have a man who validates me and helps me through my anxiety and depressed thoughts would mean everything to me. it’s attractive to me.
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Anonymous 5w

my closest friends have admitted to me that they feel the need to be there for me and protect me, and it feels so nice. i rarely say good things about myself, but it’s how i feel. and having them there to coax me out of those thought cycles is so comforting. the feeling is addictive. but to have a man to call my own, who loves me for me, would mean even more. my friends aren’t enough anymore. i even have a professor who feels like a father figure. but i’m tired of being single. i want a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

however, i wont get one because even though i’m a good person with a good personality other than how insecure i am, i’m not beautiful enough for a man to fall in love with me. i’m interesting and talented and can be quite funny, but none of that matters when i’m so disgustingly fat and ugly. but i can’t help but feel that, if a man loved me for me, all those feelings would melt away.

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