Genuinely just being stuck up. Im a pretty attractive woman and I find that other women are generally nice to me, doesn’t matter whether they “look similar to me” or not lol. The women who have been bitchy have been both attractive and unattractive lol so I don’t think that really has to do with it.
as a middle of the pack person I have seen this play out so many times to people around me. it’s been the ugliest girls who are the meanest to people in my experience bc they’re used to being looked down on and the second some of them get any power it’s over. this could just be me but it does happen for sure
at my school one sorority was known as the “ugly” or “fat” sorority and it also had the most infighting out of any house because of this. I tried giving them a shot bc I felt bad that they had a bad rep based on looks, but it turned out a lot of them were just straight up super mean for no reason and that was a huge reason they consistently couldn’t get girls to join. not every unattractive girl is mean, but a lot of mean girls are insecure and project it - the more insecure, the meaner
and that’s fair, I don’t know any of their whole backstories on how they were treated growing up. all I know is the meanest girls I knew in college were almost all really ugly inside and out. I def knew mean attractive girls as well, but my experience seemed like there was a correlation. could’ve def just been an outlier tho ¯\_(ツ)_/¯