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i left my abusive relationship and had to move back with my parents (here now) till december when i go back to fl to uni to graduate in may. my mom is a controlling person and im the black sheep…they are helping me financially a bit but (more in comments)
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Anonymous 11w

because i didn’t have a job (i start tuesday now). they are never there for me emotionally or mentally and often push my feelings aside. my mom was emotionally an physically abusive growing up. she’s going through all my things since i’ve been up here bc it’s “her bedroom” (it’s mine, she calls my room her room since it’s in her house) i want to give them 2-3k when i move out and cut her off…i feel horrible doing that. idk…i know they are helping now bc i have somewhere to live but i can’t stay

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Anonymous 11w

i hope you can hang in there til you find a better situation <3

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Anonymous 11w

Did our mothers take the same mothering class, bc mine is very similar. Im stuck at home bc I can’t afford to live anywhere without a roommate and I’m only surviving bc I work night shift so we’re on opposite schedules and I can avoid her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i feel like i’m 16 again trying to survive (im 23). she is treating me like a child, trying to push me out the way when im making food bc im not doing it the way she wants, or how i don’t clean my room the way she wants or anything. i don’t even like when she hugs me. i like her but i don’t love her anymore and i feel horrible saying that…she used to chase me around the house…throw the fucking vaccum at me. would defend my friends over me…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

even in public, (i worked in customer service and i always say thank u and excuse me and i do that bc it’s the right thing to do) she says “say thank you” “say excuse me” like im a 6 year old who doesn’t know when to do that and it irks me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

thank you, i’m just leaving everyday and reading in B&N lol.

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