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Hot take: Yes Korean men are attractive, no it’s not normal to make being attracted to Korean men a huge part of your personality and have Korean man decor all around your room, only listen to k-pop, only watch k-dramas…
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Anonymous 10w

…shame others for being attracted to a white guy, all while being a white woman whose been born and raised in a predominantly white neighborhood. You’re fetishizing these men who have no idea you exist. You’re just as bad as white guys obsessed with Asian women

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Anonymous 10w

its always the white women who fetishize men of color ☹️

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Anonymous 10w

As someone who used to listen to kpop what drove me away was how toxic their listeners were. Also the pictures covering their room Their phone wallpaper Keeping the pics as Polaroids in their phone case Like I think the albums that come w the CDs or the Vynls where it’s a photoshoot are super cool concepts Even the small cards of the singers But I wouldn’t tape them to my wall like wallpaper

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Anonymous 10w

I’m so glad you pointed this out. As a korean woman, it feels disgusting seeing other girls fetishize korean men (and vice versa). It feels unsettling to me and makes a large majority of koreans uncomfortable (cuz some lowkey just dont care, which is a whole other issue cuz they feed into it). Not to mention people saying “I’ve always wanted a korean friend!” Or “I want to date a korean man/woman.” It’s weird and so odd.

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Anonymous 10w

it was a problem with my sister for a bit, and we got into so bad cause she couldnt see what the hell she was doing

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Anonymous 10w

as someone who listens to kpop and watches kdramas i agree with the major points made here but also some points not so much. i dont really see how only listening to kpop/watching kdramas/ and having posters up is not normal.. putting posters up is a very normal thing for any fanbase to do.. i also dont really see how only listening to kpop is fetishizing korean men/women? its the same thing as if a white person only listened to spanish music or any other music in a different language…

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Anonymous 10w

@ my fucking mom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

this is so true…i’ve seen it a lot. i’m actually talking to a korean guy right now and we were talking about how lots of heavy k-pop fans (neither of us are k-pop fans) and how women fetishize these men. i think having posters and things of stuff you like is cool but if it’s just THAT and you have nothing else and all you talk about is that, that’s obsession. he told me a girl he spoke to before wouldn’t stop asking him about korean things and culture to the point it felt inappropriate.

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Anonymous replying to -> choppedcheese 10w

i just know them girlies are probably obsessed with that new netflix movie the kpop demon hunters 😭😭 it literally BROKE my netflix because i was trying to watch ginny and georgia lol and i couldn’t log in

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Anonymous replying to -> choppedcheese 10w

That’s why I posted! It irritates the hell out of me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

have you seen how crazy they’ve been about it 😭 like omg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

and then some of them start to dress up in similar clothing / fashion over there in SK and it really irks me…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I’ve got a white boyfriend and theyre constantly badgering me about how they don’t find him attractive and don’t see why I’m with him. It’s incredibly irritating and disrespectful to me and my relationship and I’m sick of it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

It’s gross on so many levels

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Anonymous replying to -> choppedcheese 10w

The non kpop girlies are hopping onto that movie and it is also like pmo in a way as well bc WE DONT NEED MORE OF YALL

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Anonymous replying to -> sissy 10w

The one girl in my school who did it the worst was a woc and then she would be like “I hate how woc are fetishized” but will post how much she wants a blasian baby

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

💀💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> sissy 10w

Yeah it was BAD our kpop fan club was pretty diverse w all one common goal. Fetishizing Asian men And that’s why I stopped engaging w kpop 😌

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Anonymous replying to -> ouioui.cwoissant 10w

I’m glad korea as a whole has gained more respect and recognition, but we aren’t just faces and items to just date for their own sick pleasure.

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Anonymous replying to -> ouioui.cwoissant 10w

not korean but as another asian girl (specifically south asian) i hate how we’re seen as just exotic trophies or novelties

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Anonymous replying to -> ouioui.cwoissant 10w

btw unrelated but your username is so based

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

Is she getting better with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

yeah, thank god

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

Okay phew

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

what the fuck 💀 bro people are crazy i stg. my mom loves k dramas she has a whole app for it but she loves other things and doesn’t talk about it really. people get weird about things…im latina so i get fetishized literally all the time especially on dating apps wnd it really does feel icky like they only want you because your race / ethnicity

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

They’re not exclusive points, they’re stacked together in a list. The people I’m describing do all of this. Also, I’m not talking about posters, I’m talking about home made collages of their faces plastered all over their walls.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

okay in that case then i agree, not looking for arguments i just wanted to clarify! kpop stans have such a bad reputation because of the bad ones but majority of us are chill and not weird about it! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yeah I’ve literally seen fans rooms w no bare wall space

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Anonymous replying to -> sissy 10w

🤭 oui oui

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