…shame others for being attracted to a white guy, all while being a white woman whose been born and raised in a predominantly white neighborhood. You’re fetishizing these men who have no idea you exist. You’re just as bad as white guys obsessed with Asian women

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its always the white women who fetishize men of color ☹️

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As someone who used to listen to kpop what drove me away was how toxic their listeners were. Also the pictures covering their room Their phone wallpaper Keeping the pics as Polaroids in their phone case Like I think the albums that come w the CDs or the Vynls where it’s a photoshoot are super cool concepts Even the small cards of the singers But I wouldn’t tape them to my wall like wallpaper

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I’m so glad you pointed this out. As a korean woman, it feels disgusting seeing other girls fetishize korean men (and vice versa). It feels unsettling to me and makes a large majority of koreans uncomfortable (cuz some lowkey just dont care, which is a whole other issue cuz they feed into it). Not to mention people saying “I’ve always wanted a korean friend!” Or “I want to date a korean man/woman.” It’s weird and so odd.

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it was a problem with my sister for a bit, and we got into so bad cause she couldnt see what the hell she was doing

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as someone who listens to kpop and watches kdramas i agree with the major points made here but also some points not so much. i dont really see how only listening to kpop/watching kdramas/ and having posters up is not normal.. putting posters up is a very normal thing for any fanbase to do.. i also dont really see how only listening to kpop is fetishizing korean men/women? its the same thing as if a white person only listened to spanish music or any other music in a different language…

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