Anonymous OP 9w

yes

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 9w

i’ve been friends with this guy for so many years, and i always kinda had a crush on him, but he was never looking for something serious, and then all the sudden i started hearing from him less and less, and he just told me a few months ago that he’s been in a relationship for 2 years… like i want him to be happy above all else but i miss having him as a friend too.

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Anonymous OP 9w

I think if you take some time to be apart and let your crush die down more, maybe that could be an option in the future (better friendship)

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 9w

like why would he not tell me until 2 years into the relationship and why would you be suddenly “too busy” to hang out all the time now that you have this girlfriend you’ve told me very little about? like there’s so much to the story i’m probably never gonna know and i’m just like w h a t has gone on here?

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 9w

probably. i mean it’s died down over the past 13 years. i’m fine with just seeing him as a friend. but why be so cagey about having a gf if you never saw me as more than a friend?

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Anonymous OP 9w

he was honestly probably just trying to keep his options open i guess. he could still be now, since he’s mentioned very little about this gf, no name or anything, they’re never hanging out when we talk, etc. i worry about him, but honestly if he’s not going to put the emotional work into the friendship, it’s only fair that he should have to earn my closeness back when he’s done with whatever he’s up to. thanks for letting me yap, girlies. 💕

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Anonymous OP 9w

Imagine you were his gf and he never mentioned you for two years. That might help kill the crush.

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 9w

and i oop—

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 9w

oh important backstory is that i lived 300 miles away during those two years but am back now 😅 still odd that even casually keeping in contact it wouldn’t be one of the first things you’d tell someone about tho

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Anonymous #5 9w

oh girlie i don’t know his friends, i don’t use social media, and i don’t care what randoms are clowning on, but i’m just tryina be accountable for my own emotional maturity lmao

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Anonymous #4 9w

he’s not my ex but honestly good for you bestie!!!

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Anonymous OP 9w

I fear it doesn’t matter whether yk his friends on not, they’ll be the ones knowing you when they’re clowning on you. This isn’t about down btw it’s fuel for not embarrassing yourself even if you don’t think you care abt who’s clowning on you. Texting someone who doesn’t respect you isn’t good either way💀 idk why you’re asking then taking it as a diss

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