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I think it’s insane that I have to explain that my family has a history of alcoholism/addiction every time I say I don’t drink alcohol to get people to accept it Like can you just accept that I don’t want to? It’s not that insane.
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Anonymous 12w

People are fr so insane about it, like I’m not even sober but sometimes when I’m drinking less or not wanting to drink just for a night my friends give me shit for it. Ik it’s just jokes for the most part but it gets so annoying and tired.

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Anonymous 12w

And people are so judgy about alcohol not being allowed at my wedding. 90% of the people that are invited do not drink and I’m not about to hurt sober family members or upset my grandmother who has trauma from both her parents being alcoholics

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Anonymous 12w

right like i don't want to explain i'm an alcoholic, just let me say no

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Anonymous 12w

blegh! im sorry, people can be so pushy to understand without realizing theyre pressuring you & making you uncomfortable </3 you’ll find people some day who wont feel the need to pry

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Anonymous 12w

Gotta find better people/friends. I don’t drink alcohol and always ordered nonalcoholic drinks when I’m out. Only ever had one person pry about it and he was a douche anyway, but no one’s ever batted an eye.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

That’s so stupid like it’s YOUR wedding

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Thankfully nobody who has been invited is judgy about it, just people who like to voice their opinion about everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Nowhere close to getting married but ppl also judge abt this so hard in front of me. I drink, but my dad used to be an alcoholic and my mom just absolutely hates drinking. The rest of my family is also very religious and if they’re drinking, it’s certainly not at religious events like a wedding.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Like you guys can’t put down the alcohol for one night to celebrate your loved ones?

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