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If you have sex and the guy finishes early or just you don't finish do you expect him to go another round or do something to get you to finish. The guy I'm seeing rn just says sorry then nothing it's over
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Anonymous 3w

My rule is I always finish before we do anything that could make him finish

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Anonymous 3w

if he finishes i fully expect him to start using his hands or mouth to help me

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Anonymous 3w

If you really do want to continue seeing this guy you gotta communicate, you don’t have to set rules or anything, but maybe encourage more foreplay so at least you can finish with his hands/mouth before doing anything. Or idk, have you talked about trying toys in the bedroom? In the end, sex is something you both are sharing, if he doesn’t value your pleasure and doesn’t feel like making effort in making sure you can enjoy it too, it may not be worth it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I don't want to be like setting rules in the bedroom and tbh I think it's hard to get me to cum so sometimes that doesn't feel fair but I also really wish he'd put in more effort

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I just am afraid to ask because I feel like he knows I'm not finishing, I've asked so many times for more foreplay and the fact that when he finishes he just sees it as done is frustrating sometimes like he cares enough to say sorry but not enough to actually make sure we both get there

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i second toys but it sounds like she’s tried communicating it several times and he just doesn’t gaf. atp there’s not much else she can do. only he can decide to change his behavior

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