me too!! i also see a lot of people surprised (?) at me being super feminine while in a male dominated industry, or they assume i’m not as smart because of it. like no, i will beat these men in a hackathon while wearing a pretty dress tyvm

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fr like i love to do traditionally feminine things and a sorority officer my entire undergrad but come summer i'm packing hundreds of lbs of gear and leading people through the backcountry for hunting and fishing trips. i hate when people assume i don't like/do x just because they saw a single aspect of my life as if people aren't multifaceted

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Or when people assume that because I like to dress girly and feminine I must be a pick me that’s doing it for male validation. Maybe I just like the style?

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