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and honestly, i think that’s why so many people don’t do the inner work anymore. it’s so much easier to convince yourself that everyone else is the problem than to actually sit with the possibility that you might need to change something about yourself

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like yeah, sure, sometimes someone really is projecting, but we need to start treating that as something that’s situational instead of the automatic assumption. bc when you automatically assume that anyone who dislikes you is just projecting, it makes you too prideful to consider that there might actually be something wrong with your own behavior. instead, there must be something wrong with the other person, so there’s no need for self reflection or accountability

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