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Do I want a boyfriend or do I just want to prove to myself that I can be loved by a boy
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Anonymous 1d

Listen when I tell you and let it touch the core of your being: anyone can be loved by a boy and there is no value in it.

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Anonymous 1d

I hope you find the peace you yearn

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Anonymous 1d

ouch take this down

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

They fuck raw chicken, they fuck corpses, they fuck children. They make a I hate my wife joke and then gawk at gym bros before hate crimeing a gay man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

If you want to be truly loved by a good man that is fine, and maybe you’ll get lucky. But do try your best to get the want of male approval that this society has created out of you. They are not creatures that deserve that authority.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I think my problem is that most men hold women at such a high standard so to be able to be loved by one is kinda satisfactory especially if all my peers are dating and stuff and im just🧍‍♀️. Ik i shouldnt think like that and its messed up but like I cant help it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Trust me I understand the vehemence and experience behind your words, but to demonize and dehumanize the other side as a whole is not going to bring us together or convince anyone on the fence to back us up. I do not believe men are inherently evil. To believe that of anyone is to stomp on hope. Be wary, be careful, take your safety over their feelings, find happiness without them, statistics don’t lie, but do not push them further into the patriarchy with this kind of rhetoric.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

To address OP, you are worthy and capable of being loved, regardless of who holds you in that affection. You are correct that women are usually held to overly high standards, and this can cause us to doubt and demean ourselves. To be loved is to have someone that holds you to the standard of who you already are, imo. If you want a relationship, do it after you find happiness outside of it. Being loved is not a fix-all, especially when it is already hard to know when that love is real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

To clarify, I think everyone is born inherently neutral, and it is their actions that describe them. The pressure of societal and social misogyny is nuanced and while it too often causes us irreparable harm, there are more guys than you think that have not been consumed by it.

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