THANK U FOR SAYING THIS it pisses me off when guys r upset they have to use a condom… like hello u already have the PRIVILEGE of going inside me 😭💀😭

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i wanted to comment on this earlier but COULDNT but idk how ANYONE has raw sex like i feel like there’s no good reason. too many risks

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I literally refuse if they don’t have on them. Like it’s not my job to be responsible for them, it goes on your penis. And lowkey I fuck with celibacy

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I helped do research on this & rates of STDs are skyrocketing and have been since BC has become more popular. A lot of ppl in our generation were pretty much taught raw sex=pregnancy and not raw sex=potentially deadly virus so nobody even thinks abt syphillis anymore

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Men. It’s just cause men complain too much about how it’s “not the same”. Who gives a fuck

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Genuinely!! When did we stop being terrified of STDs?? When did we stop worrying about pregnancy? I don’t even like dudes but imagine being so unbothered by the idea of paying child support. whats wrong with you dog-

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It’s because it only hurts the woman, stds aside, HPV, BV, yeast infection risks are so high when u have unprotected sex

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Girl you’re right I was a dumb ass and got pregnant lmfao

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Don’t get me wrong raw sex is hot but SAFE SEX IS SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANT

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I just… it’s really crazy to me that it’s expected we take birth control pills, morning after pills, iuds, etc, but guys struggle with condoms. My boyfriend will wear them all day long if it means being with me, and I love that about him. He recently got these super thin ones online, too, so we can feel more together. I think guys get this ‘horny brain’, and they imagine what their ‘friends would say’. Honestly, if you ask me, before you date a guy, meet his friends.

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Like you want me to get pregnant in THIS government term?? This is America bitch this political climate is experiencing global warming so bad we’re a huge dumpster fire

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My boyfriend and I have used condoms for the entire three years we’ve been together and only stopped because I got an IUD. Condoms are expensive asf but they are NECESSARY.

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if they add upsets by wearing one even for one second I’m like nvm, leave

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Came here to recommend female condoms! So much better for both parties!! However, the US FDA approved ones suck ass. Buy the international ones from Norway and have the best protected sex of your life. You’re welcome! 😌

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Seriously!! Even if I’m not actively planning, if I *think* there’s even a 1% chance I may want to be intimate with a guy, I bring them, but also expect him to have some at least at home.

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Fr tho, and the guys always have something to say about me having condoms!

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this is real but also consider: it’s also become so normalized to have sex with people you wouldn’t trust having bc a child with, or even to tell you if they have an STD. I’m a victim of this too but interesting to consider how shallow hookup culture really is

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I honestly became part of the problem I got used to it and was playing it with science but after hearing girls on here freak out about their one slip up has me now using condoms EVERY time

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