People care about trends and celebrities way too much. You can have a favorite artist, most people do. If you are going to defend them with your life? That’s just weird. I don’t know why people find a trend of some kind and immediately talk about it and make it their entire personality. I’ve never known trends and I’m much happier for it.
I'm not necessarily certain but I grew up in an abusive household and I've done a lot of pattern recognition. I have the same temper and I'm scared that I'll end up hitting my kids. Granted, that's not the only reason nor is it the deciding factor but it's still something I think about a lot. Even if it's a moment of weakness and it's just once, I'd never forgive myself
i 100% agree, i find it insane that people will talk about it and their picks and as if THEY were in the show.. it’s so crazy to me. i understand talking about who you think should end up with eachother (if at all) out of the contestants on the show but why are we placing ourselves in REALITY TELEVISION 😭😭😭It’s ass to begin with why do you wanna be caught up in that
A lot of people use ultimatums to get what they want which IS manipulation. You can’t make a person change or manipulate them into making that decision by blackmail. Obviously, some situations you may have no other choice but to say something like “if you don’t stop doing_, I can’t continue dating you.” That’s different cause boundaries are about what YOU do.. not about controlling the other persons actions
I’ve never had a good experience with one. I petsit for 10 people and 8 of those people have 2 or more golden doodles. I also never understood people who spend a whole band on a mutt. Even if one is born from two golden doodles, they’re still a mutt. They also have crazy health issues. They’re just overhyped imo
I was in your same place about 2 years ago and felt like i wouldn’t be a good mother because of the emotional and some physical abuse from my mom, i’ve healed a lot since and have a great boyfriend who i see a future and kids with. it’s 100% a journey to heal and you don’t have to if you don’t want to. But i am in a much better place now and am actively trying to be a better person and NOTHING like my mom and can see it for myself now🫶🏼 i just want you to know that it will get better:)