
Also being said I agree that the big schools just pay to make friends, drink, haze for a sense of power, and take advantage of women which is awful no doubt. Just at the small schools it’s about making close brothers/sisters, building connections with future alumni for job opportunities, and knowing the meaning and values of that sorority/fraternity that you’re in and applying it to yourself which big schools have gotten away from.
For sure at the big schools. I’m going through pledgeship right now at a small school and there is no hazing. Taking tests to know about our fraternity and history is the only required thing but any of the other stuff we do is completely optional and it’s not even like bad. It’s like basic chores usually lol. Maybe I’m lucky with my school but I feel like the small schools are better about stuff like that.
While I think it’s bad to assume everyone is like this, we know it is what will happen. Especially in college towns with nothing 18+, not a lot to do without a fake and therefore frats are there. Also sorority girls will go regardless and random girls will too because they are party zombies. Solution is more house parties with friends.