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I’m engaged, and my fiancée just asked to take a break because “he’s not ready for a relationship.” How long should I wait before moving on? What should I do?
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Anonymous 21h

time of irritation 8:39am. if he wasnt ready for a relationship why would he propose to you? men are so dumb it genuinely hurts. please leave him and find better

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Anonymous 21h

he’s fucking stupid

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Anonymous 20h

if u don't breakup now ur going to look back at this as the biggest mistake of ur life

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Anonymous 21h

Girl I woulda left the moment he said that what the actual FUCK

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Anonymous 21h

So if he’s not ready then why did he choose to propose??? Take your time but it does sound like stringing you along bc that right there makes no sense

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Anonymous 21h

How long have you been together? This sounds wild and so stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

We dated for a year, and we’ve been engaged for 4 months

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

So total 1 year 4 months? That’s insane from him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

I was also living with him all summer. Our last fight: I was upset because we had earlier been fighting because he wasn’t putting in effort, he said he would take me to dinner and get me flowers, and he took me to canes, didn’t get me flowers, and was upset because I didn’t think that was enough.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

If that behavior is any indication, you will be married to that until you get divorced or settle

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