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just broke up with my boyfriend and genuinely my first good guy. how do i cope when everyone’s mad at me for hanging out with him still but nobody’s supporting me but him. i just need a friend hug. why don’t they like me anymore?? i feel like a big joke.
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Anonymous 21h

Here for you too girly 🫶

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Anonymous 1d

Your friends are protecting you whether you see it that way or not. You break up, stay friends, could hypothetically get back together - if they see a possible cycle they’re going to try to break it, or don’t wanna be the repetitive shoulder to cry on. I have no genuine advice for you, because I hung out w all my ex’s after breaking up too, but I was a cycle creator so… reach out to your friends, try to hangout with them more than with your ex

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Anonymous 1d

I’m sorry. My DMs are open if you need someone to talk to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

thank you 🥲🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> light_blue_hibiscus38 19h

🥲🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

i know they are!! it’s just hard to feel so alone. i’ve only had three relationships in the past 4 years including this one however they’ve never treated me this way before. this was the first time i also didn’t ever tell them when i felt he did something wrong, so it’s totally different from all of my other situations. i spoke with my best friend and i think we’re more communicative about the situation now so hoping for the best. your comment made me feel less alone, i really appreciate you 🙂🩷

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