biggest pet peeve is being called “sweetie” by someone the same age as me…like girlll i am 21 years old and last i checked you are not a kindly grandmother and i am not under age 10…i know they’re trying to be nice but it just seems disrespectful
A masc fem called me this and im like babes you’re 21 im 21 wth
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Anonymous5w
ok sweetie
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Anonymous5w
Literally a girl younger than me once called me “her little baby” and I almost hit her
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Anonymous5w
Right I hate this too
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Anonymous4w
as a southerner i’ve learned to deal with it bc it’s a social nicety BUT DAMN I HATE PET NAMES
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Anonymous#25w
like it just seems so patronizing also i know it’s NOT directly gendered but it feels like a very gendered term
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AnonymousOP5w
Most def is
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Anonymous#25w
bruh like can we have a little respect…i live in the south and ive grown up with southern parents and family and it is NOT just a southern thing. it would honestly be more respectful to just call someone “ma’am” or “sir”
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AnonymousOP5w
It’s definitely not a su thing they are being weird