It’s very valid to still be upset over it even if it wasn’t rape. I recommend talking about this with friends and/or family you trust who are willing to listen and especially with a therapist.

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you’re not dramatic! that was trauma. it doesn’t have to be the worst form of trauma to still be bad and damaging

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trust me i’m in kind of a similar situation, there were a few instances over the years where i felt violated and like something could’ve happened to me. i’m lucky nothing did happen but just the potential threat of it still hurts

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No that’s extremely valid. It really fucks with your mind and depression is a normal response.

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Mine happened 6 years ago now. I was lucky and someone interrupted him so it did not get far at all. But I felt so unbelievably violated. Some days now I cannot get out of bed but it comes further between. I promise you will be okay. Do you best but don’t feel bad for how you feel.

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