i get this but for the hypothetical, i just wouldn’t want a kid connected to me at all. i think kids who are adopted have every right to be curious of their birth parents, but if it were me, i wouldn’t want that kind of connection especially knowing that i did not want them whatsoever. if that kid grew up and contacted me somehow, i wouldn’t want to be connected to them is all, and it’s like ghost them sure but that still feels bad too. that’s not fair for somebody to learn that their bio
hence me saying i’d just have to die fr because i don’t want children period let alone a baby from a cryptic pregnancy that i’d have to figure out what to do with because i don’t want it. whether or not you want them they could still find me and i don’t want that kind of life. and again, the hypothetical isn’t that serious 💀