Girl Talk on Yik Yak | why do women heal from men but men never heal from women. like get over her bro, and then this is how they hurt women because they think they are ready for something real but they aren’t.

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why do women heal from men but men never heal from women. like get over her bro, and then this is how they hurt women because they think they are ready for something real but they aren’t.

Anonymous 4w

And god knows if a woman was acting the same way they’d be pissed 😭 like what do you mean you still think about your ex from middle school?

Anonymous 4w

Input from a trans woman who watched men like Jane Goodall and chimps: they aren’t expected or shown how to emotionally regulate. As yall def know women are expected to and shamed if they don’t. Men mostly associate with men and the not being able to learn how to deal with things gets passed down over and over and basically becomes self feeding. Because anger is seen as masculine and strength so getting angry is seen as a good thing and they then hold onto things that make them angry and

Anonymous

#1 4w

like this guy just told me this and i respect him for being honest, i really do, but like…bro don’t be on hinge. heal first.

Anonymous

#1 4w

EXACTLYYYYY

Anonymous

OP 4w

The way I would’ve immediately blocked him 😭 he’s just wasting everyone’s time instead of learning to heal on his own

Anonymous

#1 4w

ima keep talking to him bc he was open about it. im not one to be like im looking for something serious and put expectation out. i’ve met a lot of guy friends from tinder lmao

Anonymous

#2 4w

Hold onto their victimhood as a tool to get anger that is easily accessible to prove their masculinity. Also!! There is an almost a societal fetish around “the one who got away” through movies and tv Also being testosterone dominant makes you so unbelievably angry. After gettting on estrogen I can’t rly get angry without crying and crying helps me actually feel my new emotions and this prevents the being unable to get over a person because I’m now processing weather I want to be or not.