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i need some advice. i have a very close friend who acts totally different when we’re around guys. we’re both single. she’ll completely stop talking to me/exclude me to talk to them instead, and goes so far as to put me down sometimes in front of them-
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Anonymous 3d

thats an insult to the word friend a friend wouldn’t do that. if you need someone to hang out with and socialize that bad I guess but she’d be cut off personally

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Anonymous 3d

oh girly pop you’re dealing with a ✨Male Centered pick me✨ those types are very common watch out for them. They will throw you under the bus or do whatever they can to harm you if needed in order to seek mail validation Just so they have daddy issues. Best advice I can give is cut her off and let her go if she wants to treat you like that over a man. She is not a girl girl, and if it comes to your safety versus being validated by a man, she will choose the man.

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Anonymous 3d

recently, i introduced her to a guy i liked. she was well aware of me liking him before they met. she immediately cut me out of the convo, followed him on instagram, and started making plans with him without me. every time we would flirt around her, she would roll her eyes. he became part of our friend group, and he and i started hooking up. she’s clearly upset about it. i’m kind of at a total loss for what to do. i value her as a friend, but she always seems jealous of me and is taking it out-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

on me. i feel hurt when she won’t even talk to me when he’s there. i know she thinks that im not as interesting or funny as her but that she thinks im prettier than her bc she got drunk and said he must not value personality and clearly only goes for looks. i’m just feeling quite hurt. she used to be my close friend but it feels like she’s ditched me in favor of him. :( i’ve brought it up and she always denies everything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

she has great parents! i know she is very insecure about her body (even though she has no reason to be) and will always bring up how i am skinnier than her or that guys like me better. idgaf if some guy likes me! in my opinion male validation holds no weight at all. i’m getting pretty upset with her constantly looking at me from a male perspective and competing with me.

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