There’s a lot of different factors but I think porn and hookup culture are the main ones. Guys who are into hookup culture have the goal of having sex with as many women as possible instead of just focusing on loving one. And whether it’s conscious or not porn use instills the idea in men’s brains that women are meant to go away after sex and that they’re expendable
i never think of dominance and yearning/love as going hand and hand honestly. i think of yearning as strong but gentle expression of longing. male dominance is going away bcuz of shifts in gender roles, but now idk what they are, bcuz they aren’t really gentle/loving people either. idk it’s an odd time fr lol