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Would I be an asshole for leaving my bf after he asked “What would you do if I hit you?” Not only did the question just make me very uncomfortable but he knew I grew up in a household where my mom was domestically abusive to my dad (1)
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Anonymous 10w

what answer was he looking for? omg 😭

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Anonymous 10w

this is a huge warning sign and red flag. he wants to know what he can get away with. leave

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Anonymous 10w

So it’s just like why the hell would he say that in general but also knowing what I grew up with???

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Anonymous 10w

nta, this seems like he has something sinister planned and was wanting to gauge your reaction

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Anonymous 10w

NTA

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

When I asked him why he would ask something like that he asked “Why are you taking it so seriously?” So I don’t even know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

because domestic violence isn’t a joke like why wouldn’t you take that seriously

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