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A really sweet guy hit me up online and said he’ll text me when he’s free after he gets back in town. It sucks cause I know it’s super reasonable he hasn’t texted yet, but I have abandonment issues and my anxiety comes out when I’m hoping for a text
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Anonymous 1w

heal that first before you jump into this or it will tear it apart , i’ve been like u before it’s best to just do the work on yourself first

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Anonymous 6d

I blocked a girl on a different post who told a girl that was struggling with codependency to leave her bf so she ‘could leave him first’ and ‘sterilize herself’ from the situation, and when I came back from that post, #1 here disappeared 💀 She’s just going through posts of anxious girls on Girl Talk and telling them the best thing is to leave the people they’re with

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Anonymous 6d
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I’ve been doing the “work on myself” for years since the last time time I had an intimate partner. That intimate partner sexually assaulted me. I have not kissed anyone in six years, and I’ve been in therapy every week for years as well as medicated for ptsd. I understand that anxiety is an emotion that I deal with regularly and I’ve realized waiting for me to have no anxiety before pursuing any opportunity is self-destructive

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