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I feel like shit I feel not woman enough next to this friend I feel like I have to lower my standards for guys cuz she’ll just take them from me and I know they gave free will but EVERYTIME, I fuck with someone she makes out with them I’m tired, I feel ug
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Anonymous 1w

what mother russia said, she is not your friend. friends don’t see each other as competition or “take” things/people from them. anyone that you feel threatened by is not your friend. same goes for you, your friends shouldn’t feel threatened or feel the need to compete with you. if they do then you’re with the wrong people.

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Anonymous 1w

Sounds like this friend should not be your friend. You are woman enough, you’re a woman. You don’t have to be a homemaker or an artist or whatever other stereotypes there are to be a woman. You are enough and you should never change who you are to fit into a man’s mold of admirable. Don’t be friends with anyone who makes you feel inferior. We are all unique, and that deserves to be appreciated and celebrated, not reprimanded.

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Anonymous 1w

That’s NOT your friend girl

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 1w

But like technically it’s nothing serious cuz we at parties and shit, and if the guys like her they like her right? But tn I found fine shyt told her, flirted with him the whole night, just to see him make out with her in the hallways. Girl invited him to my bday party without my permission prior too. Her excuse, I saw him and talked to him first

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Am I wrong for feeling this way or am I just insecure, be honest cuz I feel like I’ll never ever find someone when she’s near

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That’s not being insecure at all. The most basic rules of friendship, both girl code and bro code, is to not hit on someone your friend is interested in.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

She is doing it on purpose and I can guarantee that. These things aren’t just happening because the guy decided he lost interest in you, she is pursuing them after knowing you were talking with them.

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