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college was supposed to be fun
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Anonymous 8w

Can I ask what’s wrong?

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Anonymous 8w

Not under these conditions

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

barely any friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I went through the same thing my freshman and sophomore year. It will take time to make friends. The longer it takes the longer they last! I was an introvert before college but now I am an ambivert because you kinda have to force yourself to be social.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

that makes me feel a bit better since i’m going into my junior year :) i feel like im running out of time. i’m very much an extrovert though so the loneliness kills me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

There is no definitive time, I promise. You will definitely find a good friend whether it’s next month or next season. This time that you have with yourself you can definitely learn more about you. I feel that isolation or not having many people constantly around you teaches you a lot about yourself so when you do get that friend you’ll know what you will and won’t accept. Just enjoy this time with yourself. Solo dates, new hobbies, and other things are so fun and maybe something to try?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

i think i know enough about myself if im honest, im just depressed😭 the problem is i kind of lost interest in everything i used to enjoy. but i started antidepressants so hopefully that will help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

ho is you me? i’m in the exact same situation, literally going into my junior year and just started antidepressants

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

ugh i’m glad i’m not alone😭 i feel so behind and im so jealous of everyone else it’s not even funny. i need more friends at school ASAP and im running out of hope

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