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my bf made fun of another woman for having the same facial features as me which is my biggest insecurity. we went to go see the drama last night and on the way out we were talking about one character being annoying and he said “i bet she’s only (1/?)
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Anonymous 4d

Obviously it’s devastating that he’d call her ugly when at least you think she looks like you, but I think it’s also just bad that he’d openly call a woman ugly and laugh about it, especially in front of you. That’s so cruel

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Anonymous 4d

like that because she’s ugly” and laughed. i didn’t laugh i asked him what he meant and what about her is ugly and he was still laughing just looked at me and didn’t answer the question. we sat in silence until we got back to his place and i went straight to my car and left (2/?)

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Anonymous 4d

making comments like that about anyone is gross and weird

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Anonymous 4d

Um you mean ex bf, babes

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Anonymous 3d

i bet your eyes are beautiful. i’m so sorry you had to experience this and have to experience insecurity towards your eyes.

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Anonymous 4d

Ugh. I’d definitely call him out for it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

this actress has close set eyes and a hooked nose. i have both of those (naturally). i got a nose job a couple years ago (that im considering a revision on) because i was so insecure with the way i looked. the close set eyes is my skull structure and there’s no way to fix this (ive looked into every possible outcome). ever since an ex pointed out my close set eyes it became a huge insecurity and i notice it on other people immediately (3/?)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

i’m not saying it makes other people ugly. i’ve asked other people about my close set eyes and how i’m insecure that i don’t look normal and ive been told it’s just proportionate to my face. that’s my face shape and the way i look not the result of a medical condition or birth deformity it’s just bone structure. it’s also not extremely noticeable either unless you look for it. but i immediately notice it on other people and i hate that i do that (4/?)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

he laughed at this woman’s appearance and called her ugly for having features i also have and wouldn’t elaborate on why he thought she was ugly. he just laughed. i thought the actress was very pretty and her close set eyes and hooked nose were just her features. i don’t like that i notice it on other people. but i don’t think she was ugly. it upsets me that my bf will call another woman ugly that looks like me. it made me super insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

that part alone bothered me too

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

it was the last nail in the coffin

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

a random girl once said to me “idk about you but i have never looked at another girl and thought ‘i wish i could change something about her’” and i know it doesn’t necessarily make the insecurity go away, but i think it’s nice to remind yourself that you would never think that about another girl, so why are you thinking it about yourself (ik it’s easier said than done but it’s a good thing to remember)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

i’m sorry that happened though, i would also be upset. congrats on breaking up with him you deserve so much better! any man who puts down another woman isn’t worth shit

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