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Any tips on how to overcome being male centered?
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Anonymous 5d

you need to make friends. get a new hobby. do something other than focus on romantic love and how much you want it

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Anonymous 5d

hang around women more, date less, stop accepting men's behavior that you'd never accept from a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I don’t have any friends and I haven’t dated in years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Same😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

But i still feel male centered because I get jealous when other girls talk about their bfs etc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Same😃

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I think it’s because we like the idea of a bf, someone to come home to, cuddle with, love us unconditionally, and we think if we get a bf those problems will be solved, especially bc the “friends” we do have don’t give us the love and appreciation that we give them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Yes!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

So is this considered male centered ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

i don't think that's male centered!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

So what is it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

normal jealousy, loneliness

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

as long as u don't project that upset at the ppl who do have the relationships then i wouldnt worry abt it or try to name it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I definitely want friends lol. But it’s hard for me in a way because I feel that my personality throws people off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

in what way?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Idk I could be overthinking lol but I see it all of the time where girls are tight buddies and I think they tolerate me but not enough to be my friend

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