update: i confronted him about it. he said he talked to his ex (before me) but never hung out or hooked up with said ex. idk what to believe because people have tried to spread rumors about him hooking up before. can i just live please
if he’s your ex now, does it really matter? i’d say it’s better to just move on and focus on the current and future, not linger in the what ifs of the past.