
Both are weirddd, one prioritizes sex and values women based on their distance from the norm (women who shame vanilla women, calling women prudes if they choose to not do certain actions, “freaky Olympics”), while the other prioritizes “purity” as if a woman can be tainted by the act of sex. (Shaming women who do have sex, shames women for anything away from the status quo, encourages rape culture). Both prioritize men and sex in different ways.