
I’m the oldest of five so I got all my time with kids out when I was younger. Imo I’m just not patience enough to deal with them for long periods of time. I love my siblings, I love my partners siblings, and if any of them end up having kids I’ll 100% spoil them. But kids are rambunctious, loud, and need a lot of attention (which is all normal and healthy) and it’s not something I think I’m personally cut out for. I am now realizing I didn’t type “dislikes the idea of having kids” like I though😭