Found out recently one of my long term guy friends likes me and it’s actually the worst feeling ever I feel like I’m being hunted for sport and also like weirdly guilty at the same time???
I get the guilty feeling (even tho you shouldn’t feel that way) but why hunted?
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Anonymous#112w
Idk like I just can’t escape it—ever since I found out I feel like I have to put in effort to avoid him or like act different than I normally would bc I’m very scared to lead him on accidentally
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AnonymousOP12w
How long have you been friends?
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Anonymous#112w
We went to middle/high school together so known him for like 8 yrs at this point, have gotten closer within the last year-ish though bc we hang out in the same big group.. also he’s friends with my brother and has all kinds of connections to people I know so that’s great to 😵💫
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AnonymousOP12w
Yeah that’s rough but if it’s been 8 years and you didn’t know then it’s likely he’s not hunting you
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Anonymous#112w
Oh he’s def not liked me the whole time and hunted is probably not the best way to describe it but I do want to cry rn because of it all 🫠
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AnonymousOP12w
But it’s still been a while I’d guess. If it was happening to me I’d probably talk to him about it. Closure is good. But you’re not me so