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So I fucked up real bad like worse than a lot of things. Now I need to fix it and idk how. My mother is demanding to see emails. I don’t wanna show her cuz it hints to mentioning my dad assaulted me
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Anonymous 2w

She knows but doesn’t want others to

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Anonymous 2w

edit those emails or delete them, whenever my parent was pushy in the same way I’d gaslit them to oblivion until they drop it. You gotta do what you gotta do 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I am editing them, but I have a feeling she will want to scroll through my emails, so idk what to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Good luck girl 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Honestly, I’d delete the whole account ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

My dad kind of stalks me so what I do is create a fake “bait” account that I do everything with that’s considered “acceptable.” Then I have a secret account he doesn’t have access to. If you have a connected Apple ID or shared history— get your own Apple ID or only visit your secret account on an Incognito account (the full history WILL show on the Wifi bill though I think). The bait account usually prevents from further snooping if it’s convincing enough.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

The issue is that it’s a school email account, and I have a windows laptop. Like I need to have my normal emails

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Dang, there’s nothing you can do about the school account besides delete all the emails then… I would suggest a secret email for any hiding any stuff in the future. My teachers/counselors were understanding when I explained stuff to them and asked to speak w/ an outside email (but keep in mind they ARE mandatory reporters first).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

The thing is since it’s not sexual assault specifically nothing will happen, I went to title 9 and they said that and did absolutely nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s rough, my dad likes being financial controlling so I get it. The best you can do right now is create a long term plan to eventually remove yourself from the situation with the resources you have / will have in the future. I went to a college out of state to create physical distance, which helps. Whatever help or people who will support you leaving, don’t be afraid to lean on them (reasonably of course). Realistically, it takes a few years to get a good standing on your own. Good luck.

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